Q: What is the most effective way to stop enjoying for myself and start enjoying for the Creator, without killing my desires?
A: One cannot change one’s desires, as they are given from Above. He cannot even change His aim directly. It is said that “the Light reforms.” So the results only gradually become apparent through efforts in the study, and through the attempts to be connected with the rabbi.
You will acquire the sensation of the Upper World, the Creator, and make your progress by yourself, through the desire to receive strength from Above.